Ngwedi’s Surprising Debut: Navigating the Unforeseen Turns of Birth

“The mystery of life and its profound beauty unfold in the unpredictability of childbirth, where every twist in the journey adds a unique thread to the fabric of our existence.” – Anita Diamant

The birth of little Ngwedi kept me on edge. While I had heard that childbirth can bring sudden changes, experiencing it firsthand during Ngwedi’s birth was entirely new to me. We were in the midst of preparing for a Cesarean section, with the theater staff poised and ready. Just as the pediatrician arrived to introduce herself, Ngwedi made her debut earthside. Explore her mom’s narrative to understand the rapid shift in events during her daughter’s birth.

Anticipating October: The Long-Awaited Arrival of My Baby Girl

It feels like so long ago, but it was only in October that I was eagerly anticipating the birth of my baby girl. The wait became a bit prolonged, as my princess decided she was not ready to make her debut just yet.

From Anticipation to Action: A Swift Response to the Call of Labor

After a membrane sweep, the signs were clear—it was time. Rushing home to prepare, my husband and I knew that the much-awaited moment was finally approaching. By 12 PM, the contractions were intensifying, prompting my midwife’s advice to come in. Sam, my birth photographer and constant support, was kept informed throughout.

Navigating Labor: A Journey to the Birthing Centre

Arriving at the birthing centre just after 2 PM, the pains were becoming more regular. My midwife had a strategy—making me walk around and climb stairs, bearing down with each contraction. The plan was a water birth, so eventually, I requested to immerse myself in the water. Surprisingly, the water brought relief, and I regained a sense of control.

Unexpected Challenges: The Twist in the Birth Plan

Despite the increasing intensity of the contractions, progress seemed slower than expected. An examination revealed I was only 6cm dilated, not the 10cm I had imagined. The labor pains, once a source of hope, now induced a sense of desperation. In my distress, I even considered a caesarean, but my birthing team’s unwavering support kept me grounded.

Sam’s Dual Role: Birth Photographer and Doula Support

Amidst the challenging moments, Sam played a crucial role—capturing the journey as my birth photographer and providing the encouragement of a doula. Her reassurance that I could endure the pain and stick to the original plan made a significant difference.

A Grand Entrance: Princess’s Arrival Amidst Caesarean Preparations

As if on cue, just as the caesarean team was getting ready, my little princess decided to make her grand entrance. The overwhelming joy and tears of happiness flowed as I welcomed my second child into the world. Indeed, no two births are the same, but both are profound, out-of-body experiences that I wouldn’t trade for anything in the world.

Cherishing the Unique Birth Experience

In reflecting on the twists and turns of my daughter’s birth, I’m reminded that each childbirth is a unique and unforgettable experience. Despite the challenges, the support of my birthing team and the presence of Sam made it a journey filled with joy and ultimately resulted in the arrival of my precious baby girl.


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I started losing ‘the head game’ as the pain in my back became very overwhelming and I started vomiting. If it hadn’t been for Sam who came as birth photographer but jumped in as doula to direct my husband, I think my husband would have run away at this point.